As most of you know, I was blogging for a good bit a couple months ago. Perhaps focusing more on quantity than quality, I tried my best to post daily updates of my general life happenings. I had more lengthy, richer posts on here and my other blog from time to time, as well. I kept it up for almost 3 months. Not amazing, but that’s pretty good for me. Then, suddenly I just stopped. Let’s try and figure out why!
1. I felt obligated. Like I had to. And that pretty much always makes me not want to do something. I had set my goal posting frequency for my life happenings blog to be as closely to daily as I could manage. This eventually made blogging feel like a daily chore instead of a means to unwind my thoughts.
2. On this same topic, the Weekly Free-writes began to have an adverse effect on me. They were meant to help foster more posts, which they did for a couple weeks. Then I began to fall behind, telling myself that I’ll make it up. Eventually, I was stuck in a hole which I felt I could not climb out of. So, basically, I just gave up, continually falling deeper into the pit of blogging silence.
3. I started to have a social life?! Hanging out a lot with people, late into the night. These nights are the ones which I wish I had recorded. I plan to go back over these past couple months and record any memories that stick out. Anyways, I started to build close relationships with peeps, mostly girls actually. I purposefully tried to friend-zone myself, as I was not really looking for a girlfriend.
4. Speaking of, I ended up getting a girlfriend. So… I spend a lot of time with her. :)
5. I’ve been doing a lot of work around the house. I’ve gotten a good amount done over the last couple months. Rather…. my friends have gotten a lot done in my house, to be honest. I’ve done a good bit, but I can’t undersell the amount of help that my friends have provided me. Perhaps I’ll post some pics. :D
6. Inversely, I’ve also been suffering most days from general laziness. My days are usually filled w/ friends and my girlie. So I am not home too often. Whenever I do find myself having some down time to just relax at my own house, I just want to sit back and watch some New Girl. That show’s funny, yo. The laziness is getting kinda bad. My house, though very different and much cozier and welcome than it started, is littered w/ mess everywhere. Not so much piles of mess as it is a blanketing layer. It’s bad, and I’m supposed to be cleaning it up RIGHT NOW. Today is a rare Saturday where I have nothing to do, so I had told myself that I would clean. Yup, I’m blogging instead.
So, yes, those are some of the reasons why I think I stopped blogging. I think it can be boiled down to me losing interest and finding interest in other things… or people. :p
Still, I want to start blogging again. Perhaps not daily, but I do plan to keep up with my life blog. As always, my mind is at work pondering various topics, so my two other blogs will also be providing some new material every now and then.
Alrighty, I guess I’ll try and clean now…. D: